You Could Easily Become Violent |
 You generally deal with problems and conflicts peacefully. However, your emotions are intense - and your temper is a bit out of control. You may want to work on some anger management... before your anger gets you in trouble. |
HUh! I was raised in a violent surroundings.Both my father and mother were so mean to me when I was a child.They could easily hurt me physically and emotionally especially my mother.She would likely to hurt me in any means even if I only committed a very small "sala".I can never forget that because that is how I raised.I am afraid I could do the same to my baby.Hopefully not.I would just try to hold my temper and remember to be good to her.
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I was raised by a very mean and spiteful father... I was hit with anything he could get his hands on... I was kicked up and down steps because he was having a bad day... I could tell you more but there is no point it is on the past and it makes most people cring... But what I am getting at is when my children were born i vowed to treat them in a better fashion and never abuse them... I dont believe in hitting children i never liked it and i refused to do it to mine... So my children were raised that if they do some thing wrong time outs were when they were smaller and as they became older it turned into you miss behave you lose something you like untill I decide to return it, and no friends on the phone or over for a visit... well it worked for us may not work for everyone... But I do believe each one of us can break the cycle if we really try, I did and no sometimes it was not easy but on those times walk away and deal with it when level headed... Good luck in breaking your cycle I know you can it is just a matter of will...
Spanking is all I have to do when my kids get naughtier but only in the bottom.
I do it very slowly then sent out to their naughty chair and when they hit teenager and do something wrong they sure will be grounded for weeks, hehehehe.
Hitting is no good and it only makes you felt guilty afterwards.
I tell you, di jud nimo malikayan gats na madapi-an ang imoha anak puhon no matter how hard you try but that doesn't mean you are a bad parent as long as not too much or not to the point like your parents did to you, no way!
Mudapi man ko sa akoa mga kids gani, pero g-advice gyud ko ni Simon na dili as long as mapugngan nako, but usahay di jud baya but I managed to control myself gyud all the time. Only hit them very very rare sa lubot, lagpak gyud hehehe.
Bunalan man sad ko sa akoa parents, akoa Mama then akong Papa talagsa kaau once in a year cguro hehehe.
But wala ra man nako, kay they show me they care and they love me gyud and love pud nako sila to the max.
I understand parenting since I had my own kids.
I see you will be a good mother to your lil princess but once more than one imoha baby ayha ra gyud ang stress musugod.
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